Python and Node.js are the two most popular backend languages for startups. Choosing the wrong one does not break your project, but it can cost you EUR 2,000-5,000 in unnecessary development time and limit your ability to add AI features later.
I build with Python (Django and FastAPI) daily and have delivered Node.js projects in the past. This comparison is based on real experience, not benchmarks that do not reflect production workloads.
The short version: If your product involves AI, data processing, or complex business logic, choose Python. If your product is real-time-first (chat, live collaboration, streaming) and your team already knows JavaScript, choose Node.js. For everything else, both work — pick the one your team knows best.